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How To Calmly Discipline Your Children When Emotions Are High

When your child chooses to deliberately disobey you, it is frustrating. Emotions can rise, causing moms to respond in ways they may regret later. The scenario in our How To Control Your Emotions When Your Children Frustrates You blog is a good place to start.

Your daughter yells, “NO!”, after you calmly ask her to “please take your cereal bowl to the kitchen sink.” It is especially tough because there is emotional residue left from the evening before when you fought with your husband over finances and had to drag yourself out of bed three times to care for your sick son. This morning, your daughter refuses to get her shoes on. All you are trying to do is get everyone out the door before they are late. Then you hear, “NO!” You don’t want to respond in anger like your mom did, but things just keep building up…

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How Do You Know When Your Child Needs to Be Disciplined?

At times it can be confusing to know if you should discipline your child or ignore their actions. Sometimes you wonder if it is worth the effort when you are in a hurry and late for work, people are watching, or you are just too exhausted.

As moms, we encounter disobedience issues daily. Picture this scenario: it’s time to get ready for bed. “Samantha, please go brush your teeth and get your pajamas on.” Five minutes later, Samantha is still laying in the same spot on the floor. Mom thinks, “This happens every night! I wish she’d get up and do what I say!” …

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How To Control Your Emotions When Your Children Frustrate You

Emotions within us rise when our daughter yells, “No!”, after you calmly ask her to “Please take your cereal bowl to the kitchen.” It is especially tough because there is emotional residue left from the evening before when you fought with your husband over finances and had to drag yourself out of bed three times to care for your sick son. This morning your daughter refuses to get her shoes on. All you are trying to do is get everyone out the door before they are late. Then you hear, “No!”, you don’t want to respond in anger like your mom did, but things just keep building up.

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24 Indoor Activities to do with Your Children

When you feel stuck at home, your children probably do too! But being at home provides a great opportunity for Moms to engage with their children, build better relationships, and enhance everyone’s mood. With a little creativity, you can get your children off the screen and actively develop a deeper connection with them at the same time. Here are some ideas to get you going:

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HOW TO TEACH YOUR CHILD TO BE HONEST

When our children are little, lying can seem cute and almost humorous at times. When you ask your two-year-old, “Did you take a chocolate chip cookie?”, she immediately shakes her head, hides the half-eaten cookie behind her back, and says with chocolate-covered lips, “No, Mommy, I didn’t.”

At this age, these little lies somehow seem funny because they’re so obvious. But when you add ten years to seemingly innocent 5-year-old lying, you’ve got a teenager skillful at lying about adolescent behaviors – not completing homework, skipping school, experimenting with drugs, and engaging in sexual relationships.

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The Truth About My Child Telling Lies

When our children are little, lying can seem almost humorous at times. When you ask a two-year-old, “Sadie, did you take a chocolate chip cookie from the cooling rack?”, you see her immediately shake her head and hide the half-eaten cookie behind her back saying with melted chocolate on her lips, “No Mommy, I didn’t.”…

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3 Easy New Year’s Resolutions for Moms in 2022

New Year’s resolutions are hard. It means changing your habits and routines. Make it a little easier by making changes in incremental steps to start. This allows your mind to focus on an attainable goal. You as moms are holding your family together and managing schedules. Your whole family needs you to be healthy and have emotional and physical energy for them. There are three areas that most moms need help with that are explained below.

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4 New Year’s Parenting Resolutions for 2022

Make your home even more peaceful and loving in 2022. With the pandemic raging, our homes need to be a haven for our families. Here are a few New Years Resolution ideas to help moms be calmer and make their homelife more manageable.

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10 Ways Moms Can Win the Battle with Picky Eaters

During the Holidays Family gatherings can be both lovely and stressful. We have all been there. Sitting at the beautifully adorned dinner table with the whole family politely awaiting the feast. And then it happens. Our child screams, “Yuck!” or “I hate turkey!” Then follows the awkward silence with the unspoken question lingering in the air, “How is she going to handle this?”

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7 Ways Moms Can Encourage Gratitude in Their Children

Most of us want to be grateful people. Here are seven ways to help you and your children become more grateful. 

With the holidays around the corner, our children are dreaming of the gifts they want and making lists or telling you what to buy. And if they don’t get them, they will probably complain and have a fit about it! I remember finding “Christmas wish lists” strategically placed around the house so I would find them, even though my kids knew we didn’t give gifts that way.

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